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The Clitoris

Many women need clitoral stimulation during sex and many men have no idea where to find it. So there are a couple of things that need to be sorted out here.

It's not a mysterious hooded character (well, in a way it is, but more of that later) that proves to be utterly elusive and only found by previous partners, however, if you can't find it, ask. For those requiring directions, it's a small pink bud situated within the outer labia (vaginal lips) above the entry to the vagina.

Although all you can see is a small pink bud, beneath it is a mass of erectile tissue and the base of the clitoris is often the best place to aim for rather than heading straight to the top which, to refer back a second, is directly under the clitoral hood.

Gently kneading the outer labia lips with two fingers is a good way to start and then move on to rotating your fingers around the top of the clitoris (this works equally well with your tongue or a vibrator). Take your time; many women don't actually like full on, direct clitoral stimulation. If she does want more direct stimulation she'll open her legs, push against your hand or raise her pelvis.

You can also gently 'pull' the clitoris between two fingers – you're not actually pulling it as it's generally rather difficult to get hold of, but it feels sensational. As she becomes more aroused, her clitoris can disappear from view, hidden by the swollen vaginal lips but it's still there, don't ignore it.

Clitoral stimulation, combined with a touch of G-spot stroking is almost guaranteed to do the trick!!

So ladies, encourage your partners; and partners – you know what to do..

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~ Kimberly