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Become the Ultimate Lover

Posted by Jennifer Amato on 02/22/2010 in Better Sex & How To

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Being a great lover is not about your size or how long you can last.  It is about the entire experience.  Some men feel more compelled to just get right to the act of sexual intercourse, assuming that is enough to satisfy his partner.  In actuality, only 35% of women will only orgasm from sexual intercourse alone.  Therefore, it is important to have foreplay and take time to explore your partner.  Get your partner as close to an orgasm prior to having sexual intercourse.

Turn Her On Before Entering The Bedroom

Foreplay is not just about giving her oral or fondling her breasts.  You can turn her on before you even turn into your driveway.  If you are out on date with her, make her feel beautiful.  Telling her how great she looks is always a wonderful compliment, but also pay attention to your body language.  Hold her hand, and maybe lightly massage it.  When you are having a conversation with her, be completely there and listen.  Simply being a good listener and making her feel that no one else matters in the room is a turn on. Look her in the eyes and smile.  Make her feel that she is the most beautiful woman in the room.  Lean over and whisper something sweet in her ear.  The feeling of your breath on her ear can sometimes send a pleasurable sensation throughout the body.

Build Up the Passion

When you have worked your way into the bedroom, do not replay a scene from a soap opera.  Be passionate and build the intensity.  Read her body language.  For some women, it can be a turn on when the guy takes charge and shows slight dominance.  Put her up against the wall with her hands above her head while you passionately kiss.  Work your way to her neck, gently kiss her ear (without sticking your tongue in it).  If she is moaning, and is responding, work your hands on the surface of her shirt, feeling her breasts with her clothes on.  Then work your hands down, between her legs, but just through her clothes.

After you have undressed on another, take the time to explore each other's bodies.  Stimulate her vaginal and clitoris with your fingers and tongue.  Try to find her G-spot by placing two fingers in her vagina and massaging the front of the vaginal wall.  You can massage her clitoris at the same time by keeping your thumb on her clitoris.  Sometimes, a woman can achieve a G-spot orgasm from this. While you are giving her oral, alternate the movements of your tongue and see how she responds.  Also, sucking on her clitoris, which is her most sensitive area, can also produce an orgasm.

From taking the time to explore your lover, it builds to the final act, in which you completely bond and have sexual intercourse.  When you take the time to pleasure her, your partner will be aroused and feel more satisfied, as opposed to just getting right to the intercourse.
 

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