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There is enough scientific proof and knowledge that shows it is obvious that female orgasms do exist (once upon a time it was considered a myth). In fact, you’d be shocked by how much research is done on orgasms and a woman’s reaction to them. Despite all the work being done, there are still plenty of myths about orgasms that are floating around out there. Some of these myths are discussed below. ile there are plenty of sex myths these are three of the biggest myths out there about women, sex, and orgasms.

Vaginal Orgasms are the best orgasms there are: It really doesn’t do your orgasms any justice to try and compare them. A clitoral orgasm and a vaginal orgasm have little in common other than the fact that the orgasms take place in the same region. From there, all bets are out the window. The truth is that most men love vaginal orgasms so much because it’s a male pride thing. Men, if you cannot make your woman have a vaginal orgasm you shouldn’t feel bad.

At least 30% of women will never be able to have a vaginal orgasm, according to statistics. Even the ones that can have them normally do not have them regularly. If they can have them, this doesn’t mean that they are their favorite way to orgasm. Clitoral orgasms are a very popular choice for many women. Furthermore, even if a woman is able to have vaginal orgasms, it does not mean she will want them every time. Changing things up is far more exhilarating than ‘missionary impossible’ all the time.

Sex is useless without orgasms: A man must have created this myth because it’s absolutely absurd. When a woman has sex (and this should be with anyone) the object is more for enjoyment as opposed to finishing the race. Orgasms are nice, but they are hardly the prime focus. For many women, sex is a strong form of intimacy that can be equally satisfying without orgasm, especially if the sexual encounter is handled lovingly and is about pleasure rather than completion.

Men need to have experience and skill to please a woman: Skill and experience don’t hurt, but in truth they have little to do with having an orgasm. If men want to please a woman in bed, some foreplay and lots of attention won’t hurt. However, if we’re being honest, no matter how much or little skill a man has, a woman can still find a way to orgasm if she wants one. It’s about the clitoris. They don’t call it the center of pleasure for nothing. So, if you’re new to pleasing women, you know what to do. Give her lots of loving attention and remember… her clit is there for a reason.

Now it’s your turn readers. What do you feel is the biggest myth or misconception when it comes to women, sex, and orgasms? Leave a comment and let us know your thoughts.

SOURCE:  Ashtyn Evans, sheknows.com