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What is the correct way to perform cunnilingus?

Lynne Santiago MS, LMHC

Lynne is a Licensed Mental Health Counselor (LMHC) and Certified Sex Therapist with a private practice in Tampa, FL. Lynne received advanced, specialized training in sexual health and human sexuality from the Academy of Clinical Sexologists ... Read More About Lynne Santiago »

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Q. What is the correct way to perform cunnilingus? Or is there a basic technique that needs customizing?

I would have to say no, there is no “correct way” to perform cunnilingus. That is because every women is different in what she likes. It is best to never get to the point that you believe you know everything there is to know!! Communicating with your partner, asking her what she likes, what she didn't like is paramount for great sex.

But it doesn't hurt to get some pointers from some other reliable sources. I suggest you look into a video that can guide you in polishing up your skills and can help to alleviate your anxieties about oral sex. Spicygear.com sells a DVD titled “Better Oral Sex Techniques” that may be helpful to you.

~ Lynne Angela Santiago, MS, LMHC
Licensed Psychotherapy & Consulting Services
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