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A new way of protecting ourselves

    Posted by Jennifer Amato on 07/20/2007

Birth control is back. Not that it ever went away, despite the ardor with which conservative culture warriors have pushed their antediluvian attitudes about women and sex -- and notwithstanding the official sanction the Bush administration has given this retro-think.

Barr Pharmaceuticals, maker of the "Plan B" morning-after contraceptive pill, estimates that sales doubled since the Food and Drug Administration approved over-the-counter sale of the product after a long, politically inspired delay. Opponents had argued that the pill is tantamount to abortion -- which it is not. A woman takes the medication after unprotected sex, and it works like a high dose of birth-control pills.

Plan B brought in $40 million annually when it was available by prescription only, according to Barr spokeswoman Carol Cox. The company estimates that sales this year, which marked the start of marketing without a prescription to women 18 and older, will reach $80 million.

More teenagers who have sex, meanwhile, are using condoms -- 63 percent used a condom during their last sexual intercourse, according to data compiled by the National Center for Health Statistics. That's up from 46 percent of sexually active high school students who reported using condoms in 1991. Progress in reducing the rate of births to teenaged mothers that began in the 1990s has held steady. It turns out that protecting ourselves against unwanted pregnancies never went out of style.

Not even after years in which anti-abortion activists have tried to restrict women's access to birth control with faith-based rhetoric that draws a link between abortion and contraception -- though the only connection is that the failure to use birth control leads to more unwanted pregnancies and more abortions. Not even after the Bush administration's unrelenting war on science, a crusade that includes showering unprecedented amounts of federal dollars on abstinence-only sex education. The programs have been found to have no effect in inspiring teenagers to delay having sex, have fewer sexual partners or abstain from sex altogether.

"I believe what's happening in this country is, no longer are we listening to the vocal minority," says Mary Jane Gallagher, president of the National Family Planning and Reproductive Health Association. "I think the taboo created by that vocal minority does not hold any water."

Still, half of all pregnancies in the United States are unintended and half of those end in abortion. The U.S. rate of teen births is still the highest in the industrialized world -- about twice as high as the rate in Canada; about seven times higher than Japan.

"The problem is that we're acting like this isn't a problem, and it certainly is," says Jessica Sheets, a spokeswoman for the National Campaign to Prevent Teen Pregnancy.

Washington continues to promote what doesn't work. A House appropriations panel recently approved a 25 percent hike in funding for abstinence-only sex education programs. Congressional leaders have said they included the increase to assure a smoother political course for the measure, which also contains funding for a broad range of health, education and labor programs.

It was political expedience, not science, that led the FDA to approve the nonprescription sale of the morning-after pill only for adults. There's no medical reason why sexually active teenagers should not take it. And there's every reason to expect they would benefit most from it.

"We are always on the side of protecting yourself," says Sheets.

Splitting the difference is the route to political compromise. But Solomon knew well he could not split the biblical baby in two. No middle ground that imposes ideology on medical science is fair to women and girls. Because after all, there's no such thing as being half pregnant.

 

SOURCE: Marie Cocco, Washingtonpost.com

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