At first the sex was great, but like in all relationships it died down.
Posted by Kimberly Fidi on 09/01/2007 in Lynne's Advice Q & A
Certainly stress and children can have a way of getting in between the sheets and snuffing out what was at one time, great sex! It would be expected that your love making would wane a bit after four years together, work stress and a child—but 5-6 weeks is a little much!
Sometimes, in order to get the flame going again, it is important to go back to basics. Take the pressure off of having to have intercourse and spent some time just giving each other sensual pleasure through touch and massage. Often couples begin to avoid touch all together because they are afraid the partner has the expectation that it will lead to sex. Talk with your boyfriend about having some intimacy time together with the agreement that there will be no sex. SpicyGear.com offers a great DVD called “Tantric Massage”. Watching this DVD with your boyfriend is an excellent way to open up the communication, learn new ways to experience enjoyable physical connection, and re-ignite the sexual flame you once had.
