I bought my girlfriend toys from the site for christmas, but I don't know how to introduce it.
Posted by Kim Fidi on 01/01/2007 in Lynne's Advice Q & A
It sounds like you and your girl friend are in for a very fun and exciting Christmas! You mention that there is still some shyness around sex on both your parts—which is not surprising given the length of the relationship. These things take time and your sexual relationship is always evolving. You may want to feel her out a little, by suggesting to her that you explore a sex toy site, like spicygear.com, together. Observe her reaction to the things on the site, ask her questions about what seems appealing to her. Be honest with her about the things that turn you on or you are curious about. You mention that you are “not into anal” but it does sound like you are very curious and may be into it more than you know right now. It is true that the anal area and anus is very sexually responsive. The “diving dolphin” toy you purchased is perfect for stimulating her anus so if she hasn’t explored that possibility yet, she may be in for a delightful surprise!
