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My fiancé and I have been together for 8 1/2 years. When we started to have sex, every time we did it, he would turn to porn. I thought that it was me; I wasn't good enough, I wasn't satisfying him, I wasn't attractive, etc. Then he stopped, but my jealousy got really bad, and now I find myself in a very bad predicament. I started accusing him almost everyday that he was cheating on me, and I think that the porn has an underlying effect. He said that he wanted a break from me, because accusing him all these years has torn him apart.......
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Posted by Jennifer Amato on 04/22/2008
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Hello Lynn, I have been married for seven years and my husband is in the military and recently returned. When he was gone he came to visit for two weeks and the sex was great but now he pre-ejaculates and once he goes it takes about half an hour to forty five minutes. We both are twenty six and I worry because I feel like he has lost interest in me and when I see how he looks and is with other women, I notice he is not like that with me. I am worried and I really would appreciate knowing what you think.
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Posted by Jennifer Amato on 04/04/2008
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Does a man's & woman's pheromone need to match to become excited by each other or is it just the smell of any pheromone?????
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Posted by Jennifer Amato on 04/02/2008
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How normal is it to be attracted to or fantasize about other people?
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Posted by Jennifer Amato on 01/22/2008
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Is there any advice on how to get over a sex addition or a way to convince my husband that he has a problem?
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Posted by Jennifer Amato on 01/22/2008
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Q. I’m having an embarrassing problem. My Vagina seems to get dry during intercourse, and it becomes very pain full an experience. Is there something I can do to help can this?
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Posted by Jennifer Amato on 12/04/2007
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ME and my boyfriend have been dating for four years. At first the sex was great, but like in all relationships it died down. But now we maybe have sex once every 5 to 6 weeks, maybe longer. He has a pretty hard job and a little boy. When I asked him what has happened to our sex life he said well we never have any chances to do it. He says if we're at his house then he always has his little boy and when he comes to my house he's always tired. We used to always make time for it. I just don't know what has happend to us. Any advice?
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Posted by Kimberly Fidi on 09/01/2007
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Hi Lynn, i get so jealous of my boyfriends porno. I feel like he spends all of this time finding the most gorgeous women with tiptop bodies to watch. It makes me feel less than perfect even though I know I too am gorgeous with a pretty beautiful body. It always makes me angry and seemingly ready to leave him when i think he's been doing it - despite our good relationship which is pretty beautiful! I dont know what to do except I know l'm buying a vibrator because I always had one before I was with him. I mentioned it and he seemed rather irritated and it seemed to hurt his feelings. Part of me says "HAH" inadequacey all around - but that is hateful and not fun at all. I plan on buying a small sized vibrator so he doesn't feel so bothered. Is there a way for me to create a better attitude towards his enjoyment of porno? The vibrator is a start but i dont want to be angry about this anymore if thats at all possible! I'm not sure what comes over me. Thanks sooo much.
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Posted by John Fidi on 09/01/2007
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Lynn, My husband and I have been married for 7 years and when we first started having sex I didn't even know that a women could even "get off" or in other terms, have an orgasm but it would only happen once in a blue moon. Now when we have sex it's like I can't ever get off. What is the deal? My husband thinks that it's him but, I enjoy having sex whether I get off or not. But is there a reason why I'm not having an orgasm?
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Posted by John Fidi on 08/01/2007
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My spouse and I have been married nearly 10 years and we now only have sex one time a year. We are both at fault. I don't know why he doesn't want to, but I'm just not turned on. He never leaves me satisfied. So now I have decided to get a vibrator. I am embarrassed to say that I have no clue how to use one. Any tips?
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Posted by John Fidi on 08/01/2007
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My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year now. Im 21 and he is 20 When we started dating he was a virgin. The first time we had sexy he climaxed with in 1 or 2mins. I told him not to worry because he probably wasnt used to it and would last longer in time. We have been having sex now for a good number of months but he still only takes a few minutes. He is very caring and alway satisfies me other and i am happy with our sexual life but it makes him depressed. I've tried to tell him that it isn't important but if really wants it change to talk to a doctor but he says it is too shameful.So I thought I would do research to find help for him but i haven't found any answers. Please help.
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Posted by John Fidi on 07/01/2007
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I don't know if you'd be able to answer my question. It took me while to realize from my past sexual relationships that I am a lesbian. I've dated men and have had sex with them but I've never really had *orgasms*, I love the female body, and have made out with women during college and I've had more orgasms in one night than I have with the male relationships. I already have low self-esteem about my image but how would I go about *coming out* about being a lesbian when my family and friends expect me to marry a man? I don't know what to do? I'm totally infatuated with a friend of mine at work and she is straight. Help!
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Posted by Kimberly Fidi on 06/01/2007
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I have been married to same man for 27 yrs. i love him but we haven't had sex in the last 3 and half yrs. he was hurt very badly in an accident breaking both of his legs putting him in a hospital bed for almost a year i understand that he has issues about his legs being hurt.
he has been on medication for such a long time i am not sure if i should ask him about touching me or just leave it at the room mate stage again i miss being held and told thank you for small things. enjoy sex a great deal i have been buying toys to play with for the last 3 yrs. i have gotten quite a collection he made comment about the new toy box. that is under my bed now. i can't fix this alone. i understand that just need to figure out how to start the process over with him. 27 yrs with one person you forget how to be sexy.
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Posted by Kim Fidi on 06/01/2007
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Hello my question is, When my boyfriend and I first met our sex life was amazing some times we do it several times in one night and we both would reach an orgasm each time. but lately for the last month or so I am lucky if i can get to touch me once a week and then we do it seems he reaches an orgasm and me left wanting more. I have tried different things to enhance our sex life talking, toys. I even tried videos but he says he is not really into them how can I get his or our passion for one another back on course.
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Posted by Kim Fidi on 04/01/2007
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Am 24 and have not had sex in more than 10 year.I decided to wait for the right partner. Recently I have been feeling wet/horny and I thought buying a vibe, ultimate rabbit, will stimulate me and releave the urge, but oh my the experience was quite uncomfortable ulmost painfull. The thing is too big for me but it is only 5". I get stimulation to orgasm from rubbing the clit with my fingers with silk pants on but I have never had vaginal stimulations. Any suggestions?
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Posted by Kim Fidi on 04/01/2007
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Hi! Sex with my wife has become nonexistent. Mainly my fault. I have become tired of satisfying her, and not receiving the same satisfaction back. Simply put, she doesn't try to excite me at all. I have grown bitter and refuse to continue with this charade. Taking care of her when it isn't returned sucks. She never touches me, period. It's as if I don't exist. Oral sex, Hell No! First it was she didn't like the taste, well I don't know how she could say that unless it was with someone else, as she didn't taste me, Duh? I bought rubbers, but then she said it hurt her neck and stopped in the middle. Refusing to try a different position. She is not open to anything new, and now claims she asked her sister about oral, who replied it's unnatural and nobody does that. Every woman I was with prior to her, enjoyed doing that for me. I guess I have to either leave her or find a girl friend, which she has accused me of because I refuse to satisfy her anymore.
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Posted by Kim Fidi on 04/01/2007
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Dear Lynne,
I'm not sure if you could answer this but.. when my boyfriend and i have sex a very light brown fluid comes out, there's no pain or anything just this fluid the first time i thought maybe the sex was a little rough but it kept happening. It hasn't just been once its been on several occasions and it freaks me out because I don't know what's wrong with me. Its like if Jim always on my period because this fluid is constantly coming out of me. My boyfriend is extremely understanding but its still very embarrassing and it makes me afraid to have sex. Please help.
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Posted by Kim Fidi on 03/01/2007
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Hi Lynne,
First I am 47 years old and my husband is 45. We have been married almost 2 years and last July he had a heart attack. Well,he has recovered from that but our sex life has went down the toilet. He isn't interested in sex at all. I may be 47 but I am still sexually active. My husband won't do a thing to change. I mean talk to his doctor. I tell him I want him and I have loved on him and it doesn't phase him. I'm at the end of my rope. I don't know what to do. This is getting so bad that my feelings for him are starting to change. He don't seem to care or he would seek help. Please give me some advice.
Thank you. ~ Sheila
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Posted by John Fidi on 03/01/2007
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Dear Lynne,
I have never had an orgasm and can't figure out why. What does it feel like? Do you always cum? I was married for over 10 years and hated having sex with my (ex) husband. Now I am divorced and in a non serious relationship that is physically amazing and I love having sex, but haven't climaxed yet. What am I not doing right? ~ Estelle - Feb 13, 2007
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Posted by Kim Fidi on 02/13/2007
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Dear Lynne,
For as long as I remember, I've never ejaculated while having vaginal intercourse. I'm fine when I masturbate, but just can't seem to get aroused enough for orgasm. What is this called? How can I fix this problem? We would like to have children and I hate faking orgasm. ~ Kai Feb 12, 2007
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Posted by Kim Fidi on 02/12/2007
