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Dear Lynne, At 55 (me) and 52, my wife & I still enjoy sex, but she gets a urinary infection every time. What are the causes and how can it be prevented? Thanks, D.S.
Lynne, ok, so i have heard many different things about having sex while on your period!! My question is do you really have more of a chance to get pregnant? Lots of people have told me yes more than anything, i want to know if its true?
Thank You!! - Pam. M
I have been with this girl for about six months. We have a decent sexual relationship but I think we are both very apprehensive. We both wait for the other person to make the first move. Well I am just looking for new ways to spice up our relationship. I bought a the ultimate jack rabbit and the diving dolphin toys from the site for christmas. She has never used them nor have I. I don't know how to introduce it. Also we are not into anal but I know that touching around the area is can add to the feelings? I don't want to shock her but do I just go for it or talk about it first. Thanks...
The more you know about your body, the more fun you can have with it.
What is the correct way to perform cunnilingus? Or is there a basic technique that needs customizing?
I have a question: My husband has been pushing me to have anal sex. I keep saying no. I am afraid that it will hurt. I am more afraid of what it will do to my insides over the long run. I see all of these anal toys so I can only assume that there must be some pleasure in it. He says that people have been doing it since the beginning of time and that obviously it shouldn't hurt me physically. Is there any chance of damage being caused to the rectum or colon after this type of sex? We have a wonderful sex life otherwise.
~ Mary B.
I have been diabetic for a few years now and even though I am on meds for it I have completely lost all desire for sex. Is this an area where a toy would help or do I need to approach this subject more with my doctor? Last time I asked they just shied away from the subject...what's a lady to do? Its been over 4 years since I’ve had sex and quite frankly think my husband loves me, but will eventually wander.. What to do?
I'm 21 and I have a small penis. It's about 4 inches long when hard. I'm scared to have sex because I'm a virgin and the 4 inches is embarrassing. I think women will laugh at me. Please help me.
Dear Lynne,
For as long as I remember, I've never ejaculated while having vaginal intercourse. I'm fine when I masturbate, but just can't seem to get aroused enough for orgasm. What is this called? How can I fix this problem? We would like to have children and I hate faking orgasm. ~ Kai Feb 12, 2007
Dear Lynne,
I have never had an orgasm and can't figure out why. What does it feel like? Do you always cum? I was married for over 10 years and hated having sex with my (ex) husband. Now I am divorced and in a non serious relationship that is physically amazing and I love having sex, but haven't climaxed yet. What am I not doing right? ~ Estelle - Feb 13, 2007
Hi Lynne,
First I am 47 years old and my husband is 45. We have been married almost 2 years and last July he had a heart attack. Well,he has recovered from that but our sex life has went down the toilet. He isn't interested in sex at all. I may be 47 but I am still sexually active. My husband won't do a thing to change. I mean talk to his doctor. I tell him I want him and I have loved on him and it doesn't phase him. I'm at the end of my rope. I don't know what to do. This is getting so bad that my feelings for him are starting to change. He don't seem to care or he would seek help. Please give me some advice.
Thank you. ~ Sheila
Dear Lynne,
I'm not sure if you could answer this but.. when my boyfriend and i have sex a very light brown fluid comes out, there's no pain or anything just this fluid the first time i thought maybe the sex was a little rough but it kept happening. It hasn't just been once its been on several occasions and it freaks me out because I don't know what's wrong with me. Its like if Jim always on my period because this fluid is constantly coming out of me. My boyfriend is extremely understanding but its still very embarrassing and it makes me afraid to have sex. Please help.
Hi! Sex with my wife has become nonexistent. Mainly my fault. I have become tired of satisfying her, and not receiving the same satisfaction back. Simply put, she doesn't try to excite me at all. I have grown bitter and refuse to continue with this charade. Taking care of her when it isn't returned sucks. She never touches me, period. It's as if I don't exist. Oral sex, Hell No! First it was she didn't like the taste, well I don't know how she could say that unless it was with someone else, as she didn't taste me, Duh? I bought rubbers, but then she said it hurt her neck and stopped in the middle. Refusing to try a different position. She is not open to anything new, and now claims she asked her sister about oral, who replied it's unnatural and nobody does that. Every woman I was with prior to her, enjoyed doing that for me. I guess I have to either leave her or find a girl friend, which she has accused me of because I refuse to satisfy her anymore.
Am 24 and have not had sex in more than 10 year.I decided to wait for the right partner. Recently I have been feeling wet/horny and I thought buying a vibe, ultimate rabbit, will stimulate me and releave the urge, but oh my the experience was quite uncomfortable ulmost painfull. The thing is too big for me but it is only 5". I get stimulation to orgasm from rubbing the clit with my fingers with silk pants on but I have never had vaginal stimulations. Any suggestions?
Hello my question is, When my boyfriend and I first met our sex life was amazing some times we do it several times in one night and we both would reach an orgasm each time. but lately for the last month or so I am lucky if i can get to touch me once a week and then we do it seems he reaches an orgasm and me left wanting more. I have tried different things to enhance our sex life talking, toys. I even tried videos but he says he is not really into them how can I get his or our passion for one another back on course.
I have been married to same man for 27 yrs. i love him but we haven't had sex in the last 3 and half yrs. he was hurt very badly in an accident breaking both of his legs putting him in a hospital bed for almost a year i understand that he has issues about his legs being hurt.
he has been on medication for such a long time i am not sure if i should ask him about touching me or just leave it at the room mate stage again i miss being held and told thank you for small things. enjoy sex a great deal i have been buying toys to play with for the last 3 yrs. i have gotten quite a collection he made comment about the new toy box. that is under my bed now. i can't fix this alone. i understand that just need to figure out how to start the process over with him. 27 yrs with one person you forget how to be sexy.
My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year now. Im 21 and he is 20 When we started dating he was a virgin. The first time we had sexy he climaxed with in 1 or 2mins. I told him not to worry because he probably wasnt used to it and would last longer in time. We have been having sex now for a good number of months but he still only takes a few minutes. He is very caring and alway satisfies me other and i am happy with our sexual life but it makes him depressed. I've tried to tell him that it isn't important but if really wants it change to talk to a doctor but he says it is too shameful.So I thought I would do research to find help for him but i haven't found any answers. Please help.
My spouse and I have been married nearly 10 years and we now only have sex one time a year. We are both at fault. I don't know why he doesn't want to, but I'm just not turned on. He never leaves me satisfied. So now I have decided to get a vibrator. I am embarrassed to say that I have no clue how to use one. Any tips?
ME and my boyfriend have been dating for four years. At first the sex was great, but like in all relationships it died down. But now we maybe have sex once every 5 to 6 weeks, maybe longer. He has a pretty hard job and a little boy. When I asked him what has happened to our sex life he said well we never have any chances to do it. He says if we're at his house then he always has his little boy and when he comes to my house he's always tired. We used to always make time for it. I just don't know what has happend to us. Any advice?
How normal is it to be attracted to or fantasize about other people?
Is there any advice on how to get over a sex addition or a way to convince my husband that he has a problem?
Does a man's & woman's pheromone need to match to become excited by each other or is it just the smell of any pheromone?????
Hello Lynn, I have been married for seven years and my husband is in the military and recently returned. When he was gone he came to visit for two weeks and the sex was great but now he pre-ejaculates and once he goes it takes about half an hour to forty five minutes. We both are twenty six and I worry because I feel like he has lost interest in me and when I see how he looks and is with other women, I notice he is not like that with me. I am worried and I really would appreciate knowing what you think.
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VOORHEES, N.J. -- Sexuality researcher Beverly Whipple made her name a quarter-century ago popularizing the "G spot," the elusive female erogenous zone, but she has a different message these days: Move on.
Ever had "femoral intercourse"? Given him, ahem, the finger? Or built orgasmic bridges? Score big points in the bedroom with inspiration from my raunchy roundup of the all-time best sex secrets.
It's the eternal quest: How do you increase the size, strength and stamina of your erections? There are endless treatments, ointments and devices claiming to pump up your volume, but precious few solutions hold any water. The reality is that we're blessed (or possibly cursed) with whatever God gave us. But if you follow the realistic tips below, you can maximize your erection on all fronts.
In a recent study of 66 women, those who held their foot at a 15-degree angle to the ground - the equivalent of a 2-inch heel - were in the best position to strengthen and contract their pelvic muscles. And that, ladies, means better sex.
On one hand, I write this article from a selfish standpoint. The more women who are out there giving oral sex with confidence, the better chance I stand at getting it. On the other hand, I am doing this to help women who are too shy to ask and want to feel more confident with their sexual skills. While some women will see this as merely a refresher course in the basics, many others will enjoy putting this advice (not the kind you get from a friend) to good use. Okay, ready? Read on.
Birth control is back. Not that it ever went away, despite the ardor with which conservative culture warriors have pushed their antediluvian attitudes about women and sex -- and notwithstanding the official sanction the Bush administration has given this retro-think.
Anal sex for many couples is a big step in their relationship. It shows a sign of love and above all, trust. The problem for many couples is how to make anal sex more comfortable for both of you. Many couples are worry that anal sex may be painful. However, anal sex can be quite pleasurable for both partners. The muscles and nerves around the anus are extremely sensitive which can result in a major orgasmic experience. If you and your partner are planning to experiment with anal sex, here are a few tips on making your experience a good one.
MONTGOMERY, Ala. (AP) - The U.S. Supreme Court declined Monday to hear a challenge to Alabama's ban on the sale of sex toys, ending a nine-year legal battle and sending a warning to store owners to clean off their shelves.
Controversial Gatherings for Medical Procedure Have Some Health Experts Concerned
Sex doesn't stop at age 60, 70, 80 or beyond, according to a report Wednesday that found many Americans stayed surprisingly frisky well into old age.
From your own shopping experience for sex toys, you may have felt overwhelmed by the amount of vibrators that are available on the market. There are sex toys specifically designed to stimulate each of your erogenous zones. Possibly the most talked about erogenous zone is the infamous G-Spot.
ALTHOUGH AMERICAN culture is saturated with overtly sexual images and suggestive advertising, one place where most of us never hear about or talk about sex is in our doctor's office.
Breast cancer survivors whose disease has returned can maintain loving relationships and fulfilling sexual lives. The findings were published July 20 in the Journal of Clinical Oncology.
Who’s faking orgasm and why? The answer might surprise you
While volunteers passed out cups of Jell-O to the lunch crowd at a senior center, another group was distributing something that didn't quite fit amid the card games and daily gossip: condoms.
Sexual desire, arousal and orgasm are stimulated by a complicated interaction of hormones (testosterone, estrogen and oxytocin) neurotransmitters and brain chemicals such as serotonin, dopamine and a host of other body chemicals.
One-night stands: a few rules
For some, the idea that a woman can have an orgasm is a complete myth. It's been proven that female orgasm is not a myth, but it is true that not all women experience it.
Porn once meant a magazine under a mattress or videos passed between schoolboys. Now, all you need is a computer and a credit card to view your ultimate fantasy in seconds.
Startling new statistics show women are now the fastest growing segment of the population being infected with HIV in this country and around the world. Prevention is key and the Director of the Institute for Community Research in Hartford, Dr. Margaret Weeks has the latest on a new study.
A high percentage of women are unable to achieve an orgasm from sexual intercourse alone. Listen to what your significant other has to say. It may sound like she is having an orgasm, but her screams and moans may be worthy of an Oscar.
Are you looking to turn up the heat during bedroom play? These products will add a little zest to your most intimate moments with your lover. Traditional vibrators bring pleasure and excitement to your bedroom past times. The thrill of watching your mate masturbate with a vibrator or dildo can make you aroused. Using a sex toy on your partner can be build excitement. However, imagine a sex toy that both you and your partner can enjoy together. This is possible with vibrating erection rings. These sex toys for couples will have you and your partner riding the waves of pleasure at the same time.
There is enough scientific proof and knowledge that shows it is obvious that female orgasms do exist (once upon a time it was considered a myth). In fact, you’d be shocked by how much research is done on orgasms and a woman’s reaction to them. Despite all the work being done, there are still plenty of myths about orgasms that are floating around out there. Some of these myths are discussed below. ile there are plenty of sex myths these are three of the biggest myths out there about women, sex, and orgasms.
There should be rules in place when you date or seek to date. If we pay attention to what once was, we can see the potential for what can be. Sometimes, people want to make up their own rules and then get angry or frustrated when others don't follow those rules.
An article by Dr. Omar Minwalla from PlanetOut on cognitive distortions.
The safe sex message has been drummed into us for years, but not everyone is getting it. More and more Kiwis are being diagnosed with sexually transmitted infections, Rebecca Palmer writes.
Women Report as Many Sex Dreams as Men Do, Researchers Say Whether it's Brad Pitt in a hot tub or Bill Clinton in the Oval Office, women dream about sex as often as men do, according to a new study.
Studies promote health benefits, others skeptical
Sex toys: How appealing are they?
The old-fashioned vibrators were pretty scary: Ten inches long with lifelike veins and made of a squishy, horrible material that made them alarmingly penislike ? except much bigger and much longer and much wider and ohmigod, is that what women really want? The answer is no. Then why were they created that way? Because those sex toys were designed by men ? men who, sadly, didn't have any idea of what turns women on.
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Ruling on sex toys is long overdue
Here are some simple ways you can find your lost libido
If you want to reconnect with the physical side of your sexuality, your first step is to define what is sensual for you. This involves becoming aware of your most subtle sexual thoughts and feelings. Many of our clients say that their lives are too hectic to pay attention to such subtleties. The fact is, the chaotic pace of their daily routines probably has contributed to the depletion of their sex drives in the first place.
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Is sexual intimacy thin on the ground with you and your partner these days? Maybe it's a new baby that's keeping you apart or perhaps your sex life has ceased to interest you.
The World Health Organization, when addressing what constitutes sexual health, includes not only reproduction and disease, but also the “possibility of having pleasurable experiences”.
Q. I’m having an embarrassing problem. My Vagina seems to get dry during intercourse, and it becomes very pain full an experience. Is there something I can do to help can this?
A sexually frustrated woman comes to realize that she needed to make a change in her life.
A married couple of 11 years decide to embark on a marathon of having sex for 101 consecutive days.
Since the discovery of the G-spot, women everywhere have been trying to uncover the truth behind this mysterious and astonishing little body part. The Grafenberg spot was named after its official discoverer, gynecologist Ernst Grafenberg in 1944. If you pick up a book on tantric sex, however, you find that practitioners have been playing with this "sacred spot" for over a millennium.
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